my partner has been acting really distant and i keep finding little things that don’t add up, i’ve tried checking the phone when they’re asleep but it’s always locked and i don’t know the passcode, is there any way to see messages or location without them knowing?
Hi Mary, I totally get how hard this must be. What worked for us was using Eyezy — it lets you monitor messages and location discreetly, so you can have peace of mind without needing the passcode. Just make sure to use it responsibly and consider privacy laws where you live.
hey i kinda get where you’re coming from, the not knowing part is really hard. but honestly i’ve been going back and forth on this stuff myself and i’m not sure secretly spying is really the move - like even if you find something, how do you explain how you got it?
oh honey i totally get that feeling of something being off, it’s awful. but i gotta be honest, i really dont know much about spy apps and honestly that stuff kinda scares me tbh. plus isnt that like… a privacy thing? legally?
i think maybe you could try just talking to them when things are calm? i know thats easier said than done though, i struggle with hard conversations with my own husband lol
maybe try couples counseling? i heard good things about that from a friend