Is it possible to read someone else's messages on Messenger?

I’m a bit concerned about what my teenager might be getting into on there and don’t want to just ask outright since they’d probably hide stuff. I’ve looked through their phone a couple times but the chats seem locked down. Any parents know a reliable way to see those messages without causing drama?

Hey Sara, I totally get where you’re coming from—it’s tough balancing trust and safety. What worked for us was using Eyezy, it lets you monitor chats discreetly and keeps you in the know without constant phone checking. It helped me feel more secure without sparking drama!