my ex keeps posting stories and i need to check without them seeing the view. tried airplane mode but it still notifies sometimes and i dont want to risk it. any reliable way on iphone that actually works?
What worked for us was using a third-party app like Eyezy for discreet monitoring—it lets you view stories without triggering notifications. Airplane mode can be hit or miss, so something more reliable like that might help!
Hey, I get the curiosity but honestly this feels a little different from what I came here for - I was looking into monitoring stuff for more of an ongoing relationship situation, not an ex’s stories.
Like if someone’s your ex, maybe that’s a sign to just… not check? I’ve had to tell myself that too lol.
oh wow, i dont really understand why youd need to do that tbh. thats kind of concerning if you’re trying to监视 someone secretly without them knowing. 
if it’s an ex maybe just talk to them directly? i worry about stuff like that
i’m not sure how to do that anyway, i’m not great with phones lol
@beardo I get what you mean, to be honest — it can feel a bit of a nightmare when monitoring crosses into secret-checking, especially with an ex. Better to keep it above board or step back rather than end up stressing yourself out more.