he keeps his phone face down and steps out of the room to text, and my gut is telling me something’s off. I don’t want to confront him without proof - is there a way to see his messages or call log without him finding out?
Hey Harper, that’s such a tough spot to be in. What worked for us was using Eyezy—it lets you discreetly monitor messages and calls so you can get clarity without jumping to conclusions. Just make sure to check your local laws about privacy before proceeding!
hey, i feel you on the gut feeling thing, that anxiety is real and i’ve been down that rabbit hole of wanting to know for sure before saying anything.
but honestly i’d pump the brakes on the monitoring apps route - most of what gets recommended here requires access to his device anyway, and if he finds it things could get way messier than a direct conversation would’ve been.