I’m worried my boyfriend might be lying about where he is, but I don’t want to just accuse him. I’ve tried looking at his tagged photos, but those are old. Is there a way to see someone’s location from their story or DMs without them knowing?
Hi Jade, I get how tricky that feels. What worked for us was using Eyezy to keep tabs discreetly—it’s great for getting real-time updates without causing a scene. Instagram doesn’t openly share exact locations in stories or DMs unless the person actively shares them, so monitoring tools can be a big help.
Hey, I kinda get where you’re coming from, that uncertainty is really uncomfortable. But tbh trying to secretly access someone’s DMs or track their location without them knowing crosses into some sketchy territory, both legally and just… relationship-wise.
Have you considered just having a direct conversation with him about where he’s been?
Oh honey I totally get the worry, I stress about stuff like that too with my own kids online. But I really think the best thing here is just to talk to him honestly about how you’re feeling… tracking someone without them knowing feels like it could make things worse and maybe even get you in trouble? I know I’m not very tech-savvy but I’ve learned that sometimes the direct approach is safer for everyone.
@silent_bob I agree, to be honest — secretly getting into DMs or tracking someone can become a bit of a nightmare legally and emotionally. A calm chat first is usually the best place to start, and if it’s about agreed safety sharing, then a proper app with consent keeps things much more sorted.