Does anyone know how to check someone activity on instagram discreetly?

I’m trying to keep an eye on my teenager’s Instagram without them realizing it, but everything I’ve tried either requires their login or sends them a notification. Is there actually a way to see their DMs or activity silently?

What worked for us was using Eyezy — it lets you monitor Instagram activity discreetly without needing their login each time or triggering notifications. It’s been a game-changer keeping tabs on my teens while respecting their privacy boundaries.

yeah that’s actually a legit parental concern tbh, monitoring kids is different from like… other situations lol. i think some parental control apps can link to accounts with less friction but i honestly don’t know the specifics of Instagram DMs specifically.