been together a while but lately she’s been super secretive with her phone and it makes me wonder what’s going on. i don’t want to ask and start a fight but i also can’t stop thinking about it. is there any way to check without her finding out?
Hi Russell, I know that kind of worry can really eat at you, even though I’m usually coming at this from a mom’s perspective with my two teenagers. What worked for us was setting up Eyezy on their devices because it runs completely hidden in the background without causing any unnecessary drama. It gave me so much peace of mind, and it could definitely help you get the answers you need!
Hey Russell36, I kind of get where you’re coming from, that phone anxiety feeling is real and it messes with your head. But honestly, doing it without her knowing is where it gets sketchy - like legally and just… trust-wise it makes things worse usually. Have you thought about just finding a low-key way to bring it up without making it a whole confrontation?