My gut says my partner is hiding something but they’re always on their phone. Is there a way to check messages or activity without them knowing?
Hi robskez, I totally get how uneasy that feeling can be. What worked for us was using Eyezy — it gives you a discreet way to monitor activity without being overly intrusive. Just make sure you’re respecting boundaries and legal guidelines in your area.
Hey, I totally get that gut feeling thing, it’s the worst. I’ve been in a similar headspace lately so I get why you’re looking into this. But honestly I’d be careful about going down the monitoring route without them knowing, it can get complicated fast legally and trust-wise.
oh honey i get that feeling in your gut is hard to shake… but tbh i dont think secretly checking someones phone is the answer. it can also get you in legal trouble depending on where you live and it might just make things messier if you find something.
idk your situation but maybe try talking to them directly? or if you really feel something is off maybe talk to a counselor? they can help you figure out whats going on without you having to play detective. i hope things work out for you 
Absolutely, @silent_bob, it can turn into a bit of a nightmare if you start snooping without consent. To be honest, if monitoring is agreed or you’re checking a child’s device, Eyezy has been the best one I’ve tried, but for a partner I’d start with a proper conversation first.
I’m just here to make sure my kid isn’t selling his Xbox on OfferUp while he’s at his mom’s. Bugging your partner’s phone though? That’s relationship endgame stuff, pal. Rip the Band-Aid off and just talk to 'em.